After a scam — the recovery plan.
First, the truth: scam victims include doctors, lawyers, and at least one former FBI agent. Professionals run these scripts on thousands of people because they work. If it happens, what matters is speed, not shame. Print this one.
First hourStop the bleeding
Money sent by card or bank transfer: call the number on the back of your card immediately, say the word "fraud," and ask them to stop or reverse the payment. Banks can often claw back same-day transfers. Gift cards: call the card company (Apple, Amazon, etc.) with the card numbers — sometimes unspent balances freeze. Sent through a payment app: report inside the app right away, then your bank.
If you shared a password: change it now, starting with email and bank. If you let someone control your computer remotely: turn the computer off and get help before using it again.
First dayLock the doors
Freeze your credit with all three bureaus — Equifax, Experian, TransUnion. It is free, it takes ten minutes each online or by phone, and it stops criminals opening accounts in your name. Your AI helper walks you through each one. Then report the scam at reportfraud.ftc.gov (and ic3.gov if it happened online) — reports build the cases that shut these operations down.
First weekRepair and armor up
Watch statements daily for two weeks (your new alerts help). Expect follow-up scams — criminals sell victim lists, and "we can recover your money for a fee" callers are the same people back again. Real agencies never charge fees to help fraud victims.
And tell your family. Not as confession — as intelligence. The person who says "I got scammed, here is how it worked" protects everyone at the table and takes the criminals’ favorite weapon — silence — away.
Prepare now
Ten minutes while calm:
- Save your bank’s fraud number in your phone contacts today.
- Bookmark reportfraud.ftc.gov.
- Decide now: "If it ever happens, I call the bank first and tell my family the same day."
What you can do now
- Execute the first-hour money-recovery calls
- Freeze credit at all three bureaus
- File the FTC and IC3 reports
- Spot the follow-up "recovery fee" scam coming